September 2011
1 post
Attention: Advice seekers!
There’s no doubt that FYLA has come to an end. However, it doesn’t mean you can’t ask me for advice. I strongly encourage you all to send in any questions to my formspring and I will help as best as I possibly can! Frankly, I miss giving advice. I have no time to get on my computer regularly, but I conveniently have the Formspring app on my phone, so I’m able to access it...
August 2011
1 post
If you are seeking advice....
Hello followers! I know it’s been months since anyone has answered any questions, so I’d like to open myself to those of you seeking advice pertaining to love, family, friends, school, even beauty related inquiries, and anything in between. I’ll be accepting questions on my formspring - http://formspring.me/missjennnnnn
I also have a new blog URL in which I post photos taken by...
June 2011
4 posts
Anonymous asked: dear any of you wonderful people,
i am in deep need of help. i am over whelmed. i have a secret. and i hate it. my mom has a girlfriend. i hate it so much. i hate the girl. people have told me i was a lesbian when i am NOT. i just cant stand it anymore.
2. i have this guy. he is perfect. he is the only thing on my mind. i cant even focus. he is the perfect thing in my life....
i am in deep need of help. i am over whelmed. i have a secret. and i hate it. my mom has a girlfriend. i hate it so much. i hate the girl. people have told me i was a lesbian when i am NOT. i just cant stand it anymore.
2. i have this guy. he is perfect. he is the only thing on my mind. i cant even focus. he is the perfect thing in my life....
Anonymous asked: I've been friends with this guy for a few years. He moved out of state. We webcammed, talked on the phone, and texted for the majority of everyday for a few months. He told me he had feelings for me and I had developed feelings for him as well. We continued talking for a few more months. He decided to move back to the state I live in. We were fine and everything. He got a different girlfriend...
Anonymous asked: Dear whoever
Kay well, I got into a big fight with my "best friend" and I don't want fight with her. At the same time I'm starting to hate her, She 's way over her head and thinks she's the best person out there and she has that "Sucks for you if you leave me attitude". She has a boyfriend and she's always whining on how she never gets to hang...
Kay well, I got into a big fight with my "best friend" and I don't want fight with her. At the same time I'm starting to hate her, She 's way over her head and thinks she's the best person out there and she has that "Sucks for you if you leave me attitude". She has a boyfriend and she's always whining on how she never gets to hang...
Anonymous asked: Is it sad that I'm starting to really really like this guy that I met on Tumblr? :3
May 2011
4 posts
Anonymous asked: Just want to send this out to the anonymous person who wrote about liking her guy best friend. I'm in a very similar situation. I told him twice before that I want to be more than friends, and I haven't held back in making him feel that I care for him deeply. However, our relationship is still just friends, no matter how much I want it to be. Friends say that we look like we're...
Anonymous asked: Dear whoever gets to this first,
Ok so I have liked one of my best guy friends for the longest. And my friends (which are his friends too including his sister) say he does too. But we're both too shy to tell each other. I told him how I felt sometime in June and he told me he didn't feel the same. But now we've gotten closer and I don't have the courage to tell him with...
Ok so I have liked one of my best guy friends for the longest. And my friends (which are his friends too including his sister) say he does too. But we're both too shy to tell each other. I told him how I felt sometime in June and he told me he didn't feel the same. But now we've gotten closer and I don't have the courage to tell him with...
Anonymous asked: Ok, so i've kinda always had a crush on this guy and we got drunk the other night and hooked up. we pretty much did everything but sex. im not sure what to do now because honestly, the only thing i want is it to not be awkward or him to think im all attached to him or upset about the stuff we did. but its difficult because i'm terribly awkward already and not very talkative. but also i...
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April 2011
11 posts
Hey guys. How are you all?
There has been another update with the Navigation section of the page. For more frequent replies to your questions check these out:
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We have realised that the posts have become infrequent on FYLA due to the hectic lives we have but we do try and answer then when we have a moment to spare. We are...
Anonymous asked: I liked my ex for 5 years. We had an on and off relationship and then dated for a couple of months but he decided he wanted to leave me behind when college started. Eventually, I moved on and now I've been with my current boyfriend for almost a year and I love him very much. He gives me a sense of peace I never had with my ex. My ex has also been with someone for a few months, and he seems...
Anonymous asked: I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. For the first year, everything was great. He was caring, loving and supporting . He is also a good "dad" to my son. Previously he has said that he is there for me and we can get through anything. I lost my job about 4 months ago. I have been trying to find something, but the job market where I live is terrible. I have been...
Anonymous asked: For anyone.
I borke up with my boyfriend just this Friday and we've been together for 10 (going to 11) months. Now, there is this other guy who's making me feel really happy lately and I'm getting really attached to him and it's like he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and me ex might think that I like the other guy when I'm not sure if I do and what if the...
I borke up with my boyfriend just this Friday and we've been together for 10 (going to 11) months. Now, there is this other guy who's making me feel really happy lately and I'm getting really attached to him and it's like he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and me ex might think that I like the other guy when I'm not sure if I do and what if the...
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Anonymous asked: Dear all,
I'm sort of in a dilemma. So there's this guy that I'm kind of interested in. I have a few classes with him and one day he asked me for my pin for my bbm, (something similar to text), so we exchanged etc. Then after that, he tried to sit on the same seat as me, which he did and he put his arm around me. He also said that I was beautiful. So this whole...
I'm sort of in a dilemma. So there's this guy that I'm kind of interested in. I have a few classes with him and one day he asked me for my pin for my bbm, (something similar to text), so we exchanged etc. Then after that, he tried to sit on the same seat as me, which he did and he put his arm around me. He also said that I was beautiful. So this whole...
Anonymous asked: So just last month, this guy that i was dating for a year, ended things between us. He said he couldn't handle the long distance and he doesn't want to miss a lot of things, since he's in college. But he wanted us to be friends, I wasn't cool with it you know, cause i wanted us to be more, but I have to the bigger person and just agree with it. When we were dating/talking...
Anonymous asked: Dear FYLA,
First off, you guys are amazing. Taking time out of your busy lives to spend a few minutes and people's problems. Allow me to thank you guys very much.
Secondly, I need your advice. Pardon me if its too long, or if there's too many questions. So here's the deal:
I met this guy over a year ago, but we didn't really become friends until...
First off, you guys are amazing. Taking time out of your busy lives to spend a few minutes and people's problems. Allow me to thank you guys very much.
Secondly, I need your advice. Pardon me if its too long, or if there's too many questions. So here's the deal:
I met this guy over a year ago, but we didn't really become friends until...
The sun is shinning and everything seems...
March 2011
19 posts
Anonymous asked: So my ex broke up with me last November.. and we recently started talking again. I still have strong feelings for him. He pressured me into having sex with him again a week or so after we started talking. The next day and ever since then, he hasn't even looked or talked to me. Now I always see him with this one other girl all the time. He insists and keeps claiming that they're friends,...
Anonymous asked: I have a boyfriend who I am completely in love with, we've been together for a year and a half but I have a phobia of him leaving. My dad left when I was 7 which seems like an everyday problem for most people but my mum is never around either, I look after my sister and my mum cares more about her boyfriend than she'll ever do about us. I have problems feeling like i'm worth it so I...
Anonymous asked: to anyone who is willing to help,
everything seems to be falling apart nowadays.
i dont know where to start. i want to get away from my family. as bad as it sounds, their the main reasons of my depression. i need to see someone. i just dont have the money. im only 14. i smoke, for false happiness. even if it only lasts for a little while. me & this guy are talking.. &...
everything seems to be falling apart nowadays.
i dont know where to start. i want to get away from my family. as bad as it sounds, their the main reasons of my depression. i need to see someone. i just dont have the money. im only 14. i smoke, for false happiness. even if it only lasts for a little while. me & this guy are talking.. &...
Mistake & misunderstanding does not end a...
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-Amanda Adriani
Anonymous asked: So there is this guy. He has always been a player and he told me he liked me. I didnt like him at all but of course over time i fell for him. He told me he was serious and liked me. Then he just stopped talking to me and of course i was right he would never change. Now I still like him and im nervous there is always going to be something there but at the same time I dont know why i like him since...
Anonymous asked: To anyone who has an answer,
My best friend and I have been friends for almost our whole lives and even though we've had our problems, we almost always seem to get along really well and we still do, it's just that things have been different lately. I always completely have her back, sincerely hear out all her problems and help her try to fix them, and want her to be happy....
My best friend and I have been friends for almost our whole lives and even though we've had our problems, we almost always seem to get along really well and we still do, it's just that things have been different lately. I always completely have her back, sincerely hear out all her problems and help her try to fix them, and want her to be happy....
Anonymous asked: Hi anyone!
Kay, I've been with this guy for almost 10 months now and for the past 3 months, we haven't had a proper conversation. He's always walking around with other girls and he would put his arm around them. He's also changed by so much I don't even know what's going on in his head now. He's also trying to act like this jerk in his class to be...
Kay, I've been with this guy for almost 10 months now and for the past 3 months, we haven't had a proper conversation. He's always walking around with other girls and he would put his arm around them. He's also changed by so much I don't even know what's going on in his head now. He's also trying to act like this jerk in his class to be...
Anonymous asked: So, I'm kind of in love with my best friend. He likes me back, but the thing is... we're not going out because he feels like if we start something that it'll end badly and we won't be best friends anymore. At this point we're considered "friends with benefits", as much I hate the phrase. He's a real sweetheart, but when we hang out with his best friend, he...
Anonymous asked: Well, i was with this guy for a while, but he ended it with me for no reason, i still like him a bit, and have done now for a year. But recently i found out that him and my 'best mate' have been having a thing. Meeting up behind my back, then one day i caught them. Neither of them could look into my eyes or talk to me. Which was really annoying seeing as my best friend was upset about...
Anonymous asked: Dear anyonee, For just 10-15 minutes, just please, read this story, for me?
Beautiful young lady & this amazing gentleman..Close family friends, childhood friends & best friends. They both had interest in each other back in 2007, drifted apart & started reconnecting again in 2008. They became really close, so close. Its so unimaginable..she never trusted anybody till he...
Beautiful young lady & this amazing gentleman..Close family friends, childhood friends & best friends. They both had interest in each other back in 2007, drifted apart & started reconnecting again in 2008. They became really close, so close. Its so unimaginable..she never trusted anybody till he...
Anonymous asked: I dont care who answers this.
I likeD this guy and he didnt feel the same way. but we still continued to be friends. he would always say stuff to me that made me think that he did like me, and he even told my friend he did like me a bit/
but i found out he that he's been playing with these two other girls. so I'm thinkng he did the same to me.
I hate him now for...
I likeD this guy and he didnt feel the same way. but we still continued to be friends. he would always say stuff to me that made me think that he did like me, and he even told my friend he did like me a bit/
but i found out he that he's been playing with these two other girls. so I'm thinkng he did the same to me.
I hate him now for...
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Anonymous asked: Hey guys. I'll be 19 years old in less than a month and I've never had sex, kissed anyone, hugged, or held hands in any romantic fashion. I'm beginning to lose hope. Every time I try to pursue someone, it ends horribly, and I only seem to attract people with awful personalities who are really racist, sexist, or homophobic. I don't want to surrender my principles or standards...
Anonymous asked: Hey guys! Love your blog! Question: How can I give myself a big confidence boost? I go to parties and stuff with my friends and they always get hit on. I can't help feeling like "the ugly friend". I mean I have fun regardless of who talks to me but still. Thanks alot!
Anonymous asked: Dear to whomever,
It's been a month since me and my boyfriend had broken up and I just can't seem to get over him. He broke up with me over a message but then four days later, he wanted me back saying how he missed me and he couldnt stop thinking about me, and the usual stuff. At that moment i was mad at him for breaking up with me for no apparent reason. I couldn't...
It's been a month since me and my boyfriend had broken up and I just can't seem to get over him. He broke up with me over a message but then four days later, he wanted me back saying how he missed me and he couldnt stop thinking about me, and the usual stuff. At that moment i was mad at him for breaking up with me for no apparent reason. I couldn't...
Anonymous asked: Dear Whoever, I live in a really small town and go to a really small school. Well this year my friends basically abandoned me but we are still friends they just don't care about me anymore. My parents are considering moving to Arizona and I want to go so bad because I hate my school and no one cares about me there. But now my mom is saying she doesn't really want to go to Arizona. What...
Anonymous asked: Dear to whomever:)
So I had recently broke up with my boyfriend and it had been a year and 5 months. (sadly) and it half of the time I wasn't happy. I loved him. I really did. But I just felt that it was the right choice. When his best friend found out (which is my friend) totally took it the wrong way and attacked me with words. Funny thing is, my ex didn't fuss about it...
So I had recently broke up with my boyfriend and it had been a year and 5 months. (sadly) and it half of the time I wasn't happy. I loved him. I really did. But I just felt that it was the right choice. When his best friend found out (which is my friend) totally took it the wrong way and attacked me with words. Funny thing is, my ex didn't fuss about it...
February 2011
30 posts
on-the-pursuit-of-happiness:
The sad reality is that those who hurt you the most will never fully grasp the impact of their actions. Take it as a lesson learned, for those experiences teach you independence, wisdom, and most of all to never settle for less than you deserve. Open your heart to love, but do not be careless for it is a fragile thing. Do not be bitter, but smile because your strong...
Anonymous asked: this is for anyone to answer, im just a girl with a guy problem that needs to talk to someone. well, this one guy..we've had a thing for a few months over 2 years. my friends told me he was playing me because at one point he decided to ignore me for a few months. but he came back, and i fell for him again even harder. he said the sweetest things that got me through every day. then we decided...
Anonymous asked: Hi!
So im taking a trip and have an opportunity within the next couple months to do something that has been on my bucket list for a very very long time. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He knows how excited i am about this and how much it would mean to me if i got the chance. However recently when i tried to talk to him about it. He said he would come along with me but...
So im taking a trip and have an opportunity within the next couple months to do something that has been on my bucket list for a very very long time. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He knows how excited i am about this and how much it would mean to me if i got the chance. However recently when i tried to talk to him about it. He said he would come along with me but...
Anonymous asked: hi. so i just started high school, and there's this guy. he's nice, funny, smart, and cute. apparently i talk about him all the time, according to my friends. they get annoyed of me talking about him haha. he's really sweet, and we talk all the time and he helps me with homework. but the thing is, my friend likes this other guy. but recently she's told me she also kinda likes...
Anonymous asked: idk what to do:/ i smoke, cut, drink.. A LOT, puke after i eat and hook up with guys a lot. all to try and cover to pain that i have from everything else going on in my life. which is a lot of bad things. i dont know what is worth living for now and everyone calls me terrible names because of the things i doo.. but they dont understand why i do these things.. should i just give up? or should i try...
Anonymous asked: I have just come out of a friendship with a girl for 4 years. I have lost a lot of friends, being friends with this girl as she is very stubborn, pigheaded, greedy and cruel, but I couldn't see that when I was friends with her. She made some comments about an acquaintance of mine, and I caught her up on it, and we ended the friendship. I feel guilty though because she has no other friends at...
Anonymous asked: I am dating a K-Pop (Korean Pop) star. It seems highly ridiculous, far-fetched, and unbelievable, but it’s true. If you don’t believe me…it’s fine. I live in the U.S. while they go back and forth in Korea and Japan. I just simply don’t know what to do now because people around me are starting to get into the “K-Pop” hype nowadays and some like my...
Anonymous asked: Hey, so a few nights ago, me and my friends went to a party, and my best friend got a little too drunk, and cheated on her boyfriend with this guy that I liked, and she knew I liked. She doesn't want to tell her boyfriend in fear of him dumping her. What should I do? Should I tell her to tell her boyfriend what happened? Or just pretend it never happened?